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5 Steps On How to Increase Intimacy in Relationships?


Intimacy is a strong, deep and close association between two people, which involves physical and emotional intimacy. It is commonly known as a sexual relationship. The sexual relationship usually refers to sexual activities but not necessarily end up intercourse. Intimacy can also be a form from your partner’s love and warmth, by a single touch, a hug or a kiss.


In order to strengthen the bond, the level of intimacy needs to be maintained. Without intimacy, the relationship will begin to crumble and fall. Also, without it, bond and trust will get weaker. Furthermore, you and partner won’t feel secured between each other as you used to.


Intimacy creates a better understanding of each other. Even water is bonded from two chemical elements which are hydrogen and oxygen. This show that bonding is important and without it, you and your partner will just be stranger who just saw each other once.


1# Have a quality conversation with your partner

Words are more powerful than a weapon. I know it’s hard to find time to relax and recharge. There are always ways to spend time with your partner. Just a simple conversation will do. For example, take a few minutes to ask “how was your day” or share your day with your partner. It sounds so simple, but most couples nowadays lacking in communication.

To them, sexual activity is the only way to satisfy their desire. There’s plenty of other ways to satisfy your desire, but communication is the most important thing. By sharing how you feel, it helps in terms of understanding each other better.

2# Change your daily routine

If both of you the kind of person who wakes up in the afternoon. Change that! At least one of you need to wake up and make some breakfast. Who doesn’t love a home-cooked meal in the morning?

Simple breakfast will do, such as grilled bacon and hot drinks. Wake your partner and bring the breakfast on the bed. Feed her/him and enjoy your food while snuggles on the bed, this will help to boost up the level of intimacy and strengthen your bond.

3# Don’t expect too much

Higher expectations lead to disappointment. Lower your expectations might help. Only expect on what your partner capable of. Why do we need to lower our expectations? Because when you lower your expectation they might do something better than you can ever expect.

For example, on your birthday: you expect your partner to wish your birthday instead, they buy you a gift and spend the whole night with you together. Spending time with your partner the whole night is one of the greatest gifts you could ever get. Cherish that moment!

4# Increase in spending time

It’s hard to find time together, but by increase spending time together, it doesn’t mean that you have to spend time the whole day together. It means by do chores together, cleaning the house together and cooked dinner together. If both of you are working, this a good habit to start to strengthen the bond.

As a wife, I know you want to keep your man happy and it’s not an easy task to do. Here is another good example that you can check on how to keep your man happy. By doing this it does not just increase your level of intimacy, but instead, it keeps your bond stronger.

5# Do some activities together

Getting bored with the same old routine? Well, you can try to do some outdoor activities with your partner. Such as, take a walk at the park or the beach while watching the sunset together.

Other than that, if you guys enjoy physical activities you can choose to do some activities such as jogging, cycling, swimming and etc. This will help you to cherish your moments together. At least, you both have something fun that you can recall back when you want to share some stories.


I hope you could use it as a guide to increase the intimacy between your partner. If you have something to share to this list, please leave the comment below. Thank you.

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